I have written 11 books but each time I think, “Uh oh, they’re going to find out now. I’ve run a game on everybody, and they’re going to find me out.” -Maya Angelou “I am a writer.” Well, I mean, I started a blog. I like to write. I am part of a writing group […]
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The Parent Trap: Comparison

Comparison is the death of joy. -Mark Twain A few weeks ago, we enjoyed a lovely lunch at the home of some dear friends. The oldest son, 14, greeted us at the door with an offer of a beverage. I truly felt cared for with his warm gesture of hospitality. Later I thought, “Where have […]
Name What Matters – Fall 2020

Kendra Adachi, a favorite podcaster, just released a new book, “The Lazy Genius Way: Embrace What Matters, Ditch What Doesn’t and Get Stuff Done”. I mean, doesn’t that title alone make you want to read it? One of the principles she teaches is “Name What Matters”. The key here? Name what matters…TO YOU. Kendra applies […]
Breathe In, Breathe Out

The Spirit of God has made me, and the breath of the Almighty gives me life. -Job 33:4 Does anyone else feel slightly short of breath as we look into July and the second half of this surreal year? I feel a like I’ve been holding 2020 like a tiger by the tail, reminding myself […]
Connection: Top Five Benefits

I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgement; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship. Dr. Brene Brown Does anyone else silently cheer when an event is canceled and you can just stay home in […]
My Not To Do List

“There’s never enough time to do all the nothing you want.” Bill Watterson “How do you do it all?!” I’ve been asked this so many times in the years I have been working full time while raising my boys. The answer is an emphatic, “I absolutely don’t!”. No one does it all, but we all […]